Then Monday night we let Spencer know that we felt it was time for him to change high schools. We have been concerned about a relationship that has been developing with a young women at school. We have asked him to commit to certain things, and it seemed that he was unable to do so. We felt that it was only going to get harder as time passed, so we decided to follow through with our threats/promises and we told him that the next morning he would be transferring to Lund High School (30 minutes away). I took him out the next morning and we signed him up for classes. I am extremely impressed with how he is dealing with the situation. He did not get angry, he was upset and sad of course, but he still talked to me and had a smile on his face. (I am sure there are others of my children that would have at least given me the silent treatment for a while.) It seemed like he had a good first day and now he is on to the second. There is a bus that he catches so I have to pick him up from seminary a few minutes early, but at least he is still able to attend. One of his teachers sent me a picture after the first day, no way they would have gotten me to do this, and look at the big smile on his face. Wherever he goes he is known for his smile and good looks? or so the girls say. I asked if he ate lunch with some of the boys from the Stake, he said no two girls invited me to sit with them - What? the first day? Seriously I am extremely proud of him and love him so much for listening to us and being so understanding. In conference they told us we need to be courageous parents and sometimes that isn't easy, but I am grateful with all the concerns and misgivings I've had about making this change that we have done it and only time will tell if it makes a difference. (It doesn't hurt that my Aunt Kaye is one of his teachers, and my cousin Jeannie Griffin is another, and my son-in-laws mother works in the office, and I could go on and on) I'm sure my dad is smiling right now.
So as you can see our life is full of change, as well as receiving snow this week. Change is not my forte', but I will keep my head up and move forward.
PS Selina and Chelsea both received callings recently in their new wards, and guess what they are both the same - Relief Society Teacher and Ward Choir Director. They are so talented, I was alot older before I received those types of callings - They'll be great!!






